When I was still younger a few years ago…
“ pliz, I don’t need ur sympathy”..said a friend of mine when I was trying to comfort him after being frustrated bcoz of some reasons. Thing became like de novo, me myself was upset with that word, although maybe that friend never meant to hurt. I felt like a splash of water being thrown on my face. Shame on me, i was overacting. But then, I learnt something.
“ treat people in the way how u want they to treat u”, this famous phrase for me personally not always correct. For majority of us, sharing is caring, but some might think sharing is scaring. Frankly speaking, let us make everything intermediately, something in between, not to cross over the limit. Not all people will like u even u are acting like an angle, and not all will hate u if u are acting like a demon [but of course most will hate].
Actually, I think we have to treat people in their way, the way that they could feel a sort of comfort, not based on what we think is right. But then, life is only meaningful when we’ are giving, so don’t be upset, not to be sad.
That’s all..thank u..